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People Are Living Like They Might Be Dead Tomorrow

             Covid did a number. I’m not talking about suicides or drug abuse or other much publicized ways the epidemic left its mark. None of that is insignificant. But, it is worth turning our attention to more widespread effects, those evident in the way a broad spectrum of people are reacting to the plague that …

The Myth of Scientific Psychiatry

It is not surprising that American psychiatry embraced science during the last half century. Before that Freud’s ideas and those of his critics dominated the field. While some of their ideas had the ring of truth, and many fine observations were made, the one thing they were not was scientific. Their methodology was not the …

True Love

  Chapter 6 And so Jeremy and CC are no more. CC is home for spring break. The plan is a weekend in Great Neck and then off to California to spend time with Mark. CC has had a thousand thoughts and reflections about her affair with Jeremy, but, in truth, she hasn’t missed him …

Spartacus and Death (from 1968 Changed Everything)

Chapter 2 Spartacus   While Dr. Weiss has been unhappy that Jeremy is cheating on Carol, she is not taken aback. Carol’s the best thing in his life, but he’s demonstrated his lousy judgment again and again. His high IQ does a very bad job of handling the equally large stupid part of him. As …

1968 Changed Everything. The beginning of the novel

    Chapter 1 October 1968  Towering elms line the wide pathways crisscrossing the University of Buffalo’s campus: autumnal reds, vibrant oranges, translucent yellows all set against a brilliant blue sky. The wind whips up, happily swirling the colorful leaves with each gust. Students hurry in every direction. The commotion of the students arriving in their lecture halls is soon replaced …

It’s Not Complicated

It’s Not Complicated I had other things to do yesterday, but I got this email saying that T Mobile wanted to pay for a year of Paramount Plus, a streaming channel that was once new to me.   Last week I had watched a terrific series on Paramount, 1883.  Why not, I decided. So I googled how …

Passover 1963 from “1968 Changed Everything”

Mark is home from college for spring break. His uncles, Ira’s brothers, Lester and Herbert Gordon, his aunts, Irene and Anne, and their five children are at the table.  Everyone is dressed up for the holiday, suits and ties and special dresses bought for the occasion. The men wear yarmulkes. In contrast, Mark is wearing …

Balancing Work and Leisure: The New Equilibrium

  Lately I have been hearing a lot of talk about people reassessing their lives. Juliette Lewis put it succinctly. “Only recently, I was like, life-work balance? That’s an amazing concept.  I didn’t even know there was a name for it.  I thought it was just like, work your ass off until you crash and …

Chapter 4: Jeremy tells Dave about his new love

Jeremy approaches Dave Miller’s office.  They’ve known each other since the fourth grade. Their relationship has been up and down since then, but during the last several years, being in the same graduate program has turned them into pals.  Both teach literature courses, but even when they are covering the same material, they couldn’t be …

1968 Changed Everything: A Novel: CC’s fears abut her parents’ marriage

Chapter 21 Ira and Evelyn’s Marriage   While Jeremy had assumed that buying CC the wonderful ring and sharing the room over Niagara Falls earned him serious lovemaking, CC is not there at all.  She wants to talk. That’s it.  Nothing else. Talk. He has no choice. If he must he must, but not happily. Jeremy …

Don’t Underestimate Fear

The biggest mistake an analyst can make is to overestimate the importance of reason in their analysis of why people do crazy things, or have crazy thoughts .  Certainly reason plays a part, sometimes an important part.  But fear is often overlooked or played down as an ingredient. And fear explains most of it We …

What is an Expert?

During the Covid crisis experts have been quoted again and again and again as a central part of the discussion. Their advice and predictions have often been inconsistent or wrong but that has not stopped them from being an essential part of any commentary by journalists and politicians. It’s made me wonder exactly what we …

About Me, the writer

      10/1/23 Tomorrow I will be 80 and am still unknown as a writer, but as ridiculous as it may sound, I am patient. Here and there I have had my moments, glimpses of where I might go, but they have been a tease. They have given me a hint of possibilities. Which …

CC’s Parent’s Marriage, The play

CC’S PARENTS’ MARRIAGE A play in 2 Acts Simon Sobo CAST OF CHARACTERS CC:   19 year old CC is extraordinarily beautiful with long straight dirty blonde hair with streaks bleached by the sun. She is a student in Jeremy’s class JEREMY :   26 year old teaching assistant, with only his completed thesis remaining before he …

A Cure for our Fixation on Metrics

This is an article that appeared in the WSJ on January 12, 2018.  It is very relevant to the way psychiatry is being practiced (eg Evidence based medicine) Our poorly understood psyche has  yielded to the temptation of numbers, the comfort of exactness, offering experts the illusion of scientific certainty about subjects they have delineated. …

Mark Twain takes on Cornelius Vanderbilt

“You seem to be the idol of only a crawling swarm of small souls, who love to glorify your most flagrant unworthiness in print or praise your vast possessions worshippingly; or sing of your unimportant private habits and sayings and doings, as if your millions gave them dignity.” Mark Twain 1869 Wait there’s more: ”Poor …

Looking back at Berkeley

    Chapter 8 Looking Back at Berkeley          1968   Mark is shopping on Shattuck Avenue in Berkeley. It has a large parking lot, which means he can drive there. The hippy revolution has not reached Shattuck yet. It looks like the downtown main street of any small city in America …